Towards the end father could be found in the alley in his underpants holding a bouquet of items. A large screw-driver, a three foot length of black rubber tubing, a fake flower, a plastic snake made of pieces on joints so it could wiggle. He’d start conversations with some of the teens there asking if they needed legal advice. Some of them made fun of him, playing along, some of them said they actually did — they had been busted for selling weed, and didn’t know whether to take it to court or take a plea. Take a plea said my father. Nancy! Nancy! Call up the other side and see if we can keep this out of court! he’d call out. But there was no legal secretary in the alley, just the purpling evening, a few kids, his bouquet of items, an old refrigerator that the door had been removed from so nobody would get trapped in it, bits of broken glass, and the ailanthus trees.
I dreamed that I went to his office on avenue B where he presided as king for fifty years helping whoever walked in the door. He would call me sometimes and say that there were nine languages being spoken in my office right now: Spanish and English of course, and Punjabi (that was Cheney Singh who had come to the US with eight dollars and now had several buildings) several dialects of Chinese, whose speakers, crooked as ram’s horns were working out the real deal in Chinese while my Dad typed up the fake deal in English, the one for show, and Thai, and a dialect of Yemeni for which no interpreter could be found at court and the case was dismissed, and Ukrainian and Albanian and Russian and Greek and Turkish and more besides. And in my dream, as in life, he was dead and the office was a wreck — empty spaces on the walls where art from the neighborhood had once been, the furniture gone or out of place as if deposited after a flood, the man gone.
I awoke with tears in my eyes but they are tears of gratitude. We miss spaces but we miss the people who made those spaces, those places of love and safety. I am grateful to the tears. They teach me what I love by what I miss.
Standing in the alley against the purpling sky against the stand of ailanthus trees, giving legal advice to the grown children who might be teasing but might be needing advice from a father…against the sky what have you got that’s better? Says I: precious little. Not very much.