Sadism = trying to make yourself matter to people by force
Masochism = trying to make other people matter to you by force
Voyeurism = trying to experience life without being vulnerable
Exhibitionism = imposing your vulnerability upon life…
Once I have them all down I’m gonna extrapolate to a general theory of sexuality taken in the broadest sense as meaningful interaction with the other/the world. Then I’ll reward myself somehow — maybe a sundae.